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Anonymous asked: Hi basically I'm 15 years old and I need advice with a guy :/ I started dating a boy who I had known for about a year before and our relationship has been on and off since we split up, in total we've been on and off for two years. I miss him when I'm not with him however every time we break up there is a massive drama and we end up saying horrible stuff about each other. I don't know if it's worth it anymore or if I should just let go, two years is such a long time to let it all go :(

Hi there! I’m sorry hun, I know this must be hard! It’s all about deciding if it’s worth staying with him! You’re right, two years is a long time but if I were you, I would move on. Missing someone after a breakup is completely normal and expected, but it doesn’t mean you should get back together. From what you’ve told me, I don’t think you should keep going with him! If he makes you feel bad about yourself in any way, he doesn’t deserve to be with you. You’ll feel so much better after you move on, trust me! I liked this guy for about 6 months, and he wouldn’t even look at me. I finally moved on and I felt so much more confident and happy! Again, this is your decision, but I always think it’s better to move on from someone of they’re causing drama in your life. I hope this helps, and let me know if there’s anything else I can help you with! :)

Anonymous asked: okay so basically this is my story okay im 16 and my neighbor just came back from college and hes really fucking attractive and also like 20 years old. Ive caught him like looking at me and and kinda flirting with me and I really wanna initiate like summer fling/hookup thing. what do I do? I really need advice

Hmmm I honestly have no clue! To start, I would spend a lot of time outside, go for runs around the neighborhood (guys think that is so attractive), or walk your dog or something like that, to create more opportunities for him to say hi and start a conversation. Also, don’t be afraid to make the first move! Maybe invite him to a party you’re going to? I have no clue what kinds of things you will be doing this summer, but at least ask him to tag along to some of them. If he declines, suggest hanging out with just the two of you! Go to the movies, play mini golf (so cliche) haha anything that would make him more comfortable around you! But also, don’t concentrate so much on initiating anything really quickly, just become friends first! There is a whole three months in summer, you have plenty of time. I hope this helps! :) Good luck!

Anonymous asked: So i like this guy, we have been on and off for like 2 years in between other relationships ( sounds bad i know ) and we both recently became single, so of course we started to talk and hook up again, but this time its different, i really do like him, and last night i went to his house and we had sex for the first time, he said after it hes not looking for a relationship at all, "because they end" and i just don't know what do anymore.

Hi there! Okay, first of all, some relationships don’t end, if you make them work. It sounds like you have made up a lot in the past so maybe that’s what will happen this time? I would say to not dwell on it, yeah it really sucks that he pulls this on you right after you have sex (happened to my friend last week actually) but try to move on. If he isn’t completely committed to you, he doesn’t deserve you. Don’t sell yourself short to be with him again! I know you like him, but try to put some distance between you too, and see how he reacts to it. If he continues to stand his ground with the “not looking for a realtionship” thing, then you know that he wouldn’t be good for you. If he starts to try to get back together with you, I guess it’s your call on if you want to do that or not. If I were you, though, I would stop with him, there are so many BETTER guys out there that won’t be on and off with you. Remember how he made you feel last night, and all the times you broke up. Sometimes it’s good to focus on the good things rather than the bad, but in your situation I think you’ve been through enough with him! I hope this helps, let me know if you need anything else! 

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Anonymous asked: A lot of people at my school are assuming that I like the new guy. He's popular, plays basketball, track, etc. we have the same group of friends, and I think I may like him but I kind of back away from the idea because he hasn't show me any signs or anything that he likes me. But it's the little things he does just makes me smile, he makes me forget about my past. Sometimes he sits with me in class, and it makes me so happy but I don't want it to be obvious that I like him. what should I do?

Go for it! He sounds awesome. I would definitely work on your friendship first before anything, that way you have a sort of excuse to hang out with him more in front of your friends. Focus on how he makes you feel, not what your friends think! 

And anyways, if they think that, let them! if it doesn’t affect your relationship with him, their opinions shouldn’t matter :)